saw something off from one of my friend's blog.. found it interesting and cool.. so here's it:
Signs that you're meant together 1. You tell him things that you dun tell anyone else. We dun mean blurting out something out when you're emotionally unstable, but the desire to tell him something intimate details about your life means you trust him - a major component of successful long-term love.
2. You let her see you in moments of weakness. It's easy to be happy with someone when you're feeling good about life. But what about when you're not doing so well? Do you want to see her when you're denied a raise, or your cat died, or you had a plain old bad day? She should be a comfort during tough times, not a burden.
3. You respect him. You dun want to change the essence of who he is. There may be stuffs that irritate you in everyday life - he insist on wearing his favourite holely T-shirt, he eats sugar cereals for dinner, he still watches saturday morning cartoons - but you like him, plain and simple.
4. You want him to meet your parents. You feel proud of him and you want to show him off - as opposed to feeling like you have to make excuses for him.
5. You can imagine a future together. You dun have to practice your first name with his last name, but do you periodically let your mind wander to picture a life together? Is it amazing?
6. You're not afraid to diagree with him. You know that even if you fight, he'll listen to you and wont brush you off. He takes you seriously, even if you are wrong.
7. You want to work out your major differences. If you do have crucial differences that will impact your future together - different opinions about religion, money or something else - you want to work them out with him, and you believe you can come to a conclusion that will satisfy both of you.
8. You laugh together. Laughter is one of life's simplest pleasures - you should definitely be able to crack each other up.
9. You're incredibly, utterly, surprisingly attracted to her. Physical chemistry is an undeniably important ingredient in a healthy relationship. And if she's not a classic beauty or your usual "type"? Even more the reason to think she's the one.
10. It's okay to be quiet around her. You dun feel like you have to fill the space between you with chatter or other interactions. Instead, you feel an easy comfort.
11. You feel like yourself around him. You dun feel like you have to edit your thoughts; you're not self-conscious or anxious.
12. You need him the right amount. You long for him - but not too much. Some neediness is good, but too much breeds discontent.
13. You dun feel too jealous. You're comfortable with him going out with his friends - even female friends. You let each other have your own lives and hobbies.
14. You feel like she makes you a better person. She makes you feel smart, funny, attractive, creative - like the best version of yourself. You feels that she brings out and complements the best part of you.
15. She just gets you. Sometimes it's tt easy. You feel like she understands some essential parts of you that you cant explain or articulate. It's a warm, comfortable feeling - and one you should have with the person you marry.
well well. had HMS freshmen orientation camp it was... tiring. like tiring to the bone tt kind.
but
at the same time.. it is nice knowing new school mates etc. well. the camp just isnt as bad as i think..
oh and on the side note.. during the camp right.. we stayed in some loft (apartment) and.... stupidly.. i fell in love with the showerhead in the toliet!! muahaha. i feel damn stupid now. LOL!
the showerhead is damn nice.. cause whenever showering.. it feels as though like i m having a massage on my back.. it actually is powerful enough to relieve my backaches!
LOL nice knowing my camp mates. Vernice.. Elizabeth.. Shan.. Zulaika.. Wan Zhen.. Ya Xun.. Shayne.. Ysabel.. Dione.. Vincent.. Eugene.. Xing Yan..
and.. of course the GLs (group leaders) SITI and JAYSEN! (:
thanks for all the games and patience and wad-so-ever!
alright. i should be gone and be going. LOL! be back soon for more updates.
